Moving a Loved One to Assisted Living
Convincing a loved one that it’s time to move to an assisted living facility where they get more care and have less responsibilities can be difficult, especially if the person is very attached to their home. You can ease the burden a little bit by opening the lines of communication early on when the person is still quite healthy and capable.
If you can convince them to tour the local assisted living facilities years before they need them they will at least be prepared for what the living situations are like, rather than being afraid of the unknown. In fact they may want to sign up if there is a waiting list as most facilities let you decline openings if you don’t feel you need them at the time. This way you get on the list and move up to the top so when assisted living is necessary you won’t have to wait as long for an opening.
Be aware of safety issues and inconveniences around their current home. By being aware of things that may become hazardous or difficult in the future and sharing that awareness with the older adult you can help prevent accidents in the current home and raise their understanding of the dangers associated with their current living situation.
And when the time nears you can get support from the assisted living center you’ve selected, clergy members, social workers, family and friends. Let people know that you’re working in their best interest and don’t attack them with an intervention but get positive support from others to help ease the transition.
Moving a Loved One to Assisted Living
